Fighting Potential

I hate the word “potential.” Teachers, adults, mentors, and peers have told me, “You have such potential!” for as long as I can remember. As a child, I proudly wore it as if it were another gold metallic sticker the teachers pasted to our chests on days when we were “really good.”  Exceptional. That’s another…

Learning Not to Forgive My Younger Self

I would go back and do things differently. If I could advise my younger self, I would tell her to avoid some things or choose a different path. My younger self didn’t know any better.  We should be gracious with our younger selves and forgive them their bad or impetuous decisions. I’m working on forgiving…